Sunday, March 20, 2011

Love or Sex

After seeing some comments in my "secrets" i was very pleased. In my mind was like


"Finally!!! Some comments!"


Having someone to comment on your blog post feels like there are people who took noticed of you.


Anyways 


I've been thinking to blog regarding the differences between love making and sex. Yes i have been thinking about it just that i was a little too lazy and the mood of blogging doesn't seems to pop at the right time.


Well, being a young boy with raging hormones i think it's normal for me to think about having sex or even have sex with some random strangers. Yes, DinoRic was a slut but he may not be as slutty as Tulsy but he is slutty enough to call himself a slut! 


So yea, I used to have sex so often till i even lose track of the amount of sex i had when i was a single hormone raging boy. But i still can remember the amount of guys that i had some sexy time with. Sex is so easy to get in the rainbow circle. It's like you don't have to make an effort to impressed or even ask him out for a meal before meeting him on bed.


All you need to do is just put a sexy picture of yourself on some gay dating site(Axcest, G4M, Fridae etc etc.)  in the least amount of time you'll received several emails from horny boys asking you for sex. And now if you have an iPhone, the word "SEX" seems even more possible. You can even find the closest horny boy to have fun with. You don't even need to think about the distance and time since if that fella happens to be so close to you. 


Being us boys you don't even need to check the calender(girls can't really have sex when they're on a heavy flow.) or even worry about getting pregnant. You can have all the sex anytime of the day and maybe anywhere you want?


So?


HOOORAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!






As you accept the sexy request from this random stranger the next thing you do is hop into your sexy ride and you're already on your way to sexy land. But once everything is over you just get up get dressed and go back to where you're supposed to be.


I used to think that sex is just there for us to satisfy our thirst for cocks. But the reality is that how many times do you actually stepped out from sexy partner's house with your heart filled with joy?


I used to have sex so often that i feel it couldn't satisfy me anymore. Each any every time i had sex with a random stranger i ended up feeling shitty and dirty, worst!


Feeling EMPTY!


I felt like as though i'm a piece of meat that only useful when they are horny. I felt i'm worthless but a cock to suck. I don't usually let guys top me because i wanna save that special moment or the right one. So all i did most was oral. Not even the intense oral but i did it because i think i should and i won't stay there longer than 2 minutes.


So i came to a point that i feel i should stop craving for sex and just let myself to be clean and headed for a check up. I was negative in every single shit. So i've stopped having sex till i met the other half.


I was excited jumping on bed with him each and every single time. Because he made me feel loved. I don't think i'm just a piece of meat for him to hump on or whatsoever. I didn't have sex with the other half but i made love with him.


I can go on and on giving him love on every single inch of his body. Hearing him moan makes me feel even harder and wanna go on even more. He cares about every single thing when we're making love. 


When everything is over he still loves me the way i am or even more! Making love is the exact same concept of having sex but it's different. Because it was filled with love. You'll never feel empty. You won't feel worthless. Instead you felt wanted!


Making love it's like a lesson. You're there to turn your partner on. And you'e there to discover things that he have not discovered.


Make love is GOOD!


Like sex?


Or make love?


You choose!


Cheffy Ric.


Loves off!

9 comments:

DoDo Boy said...

It is great to hear that you are enjoying making love.
As much as it is fun to have sex, making love is way better and cosier.

Paul Figaro J said...

Given a choice, if course prefer making love. After sex, shower together, cuddle to sleep then next morning have another session....

AWAN said...

oh the "after sex syndrome".

same feelings here too.

But congrats to you finding the other half transiting from sex to love making! ;)

Anonymous said...

Nice description... Good that you've found ur other half...

savante said...

Till you find your other half, it's still good to have the usual sex. It burns calories!

Kevin Atienza said...

really couldn't agree more with you about this Part!!!
"Making love it's like a lesson. You're there to turn your partner on. And you'e there to discover things that he have not discovered"
but do make sure it's going both ways?!

LOL at Paul Figaro J's comment!!! "After sex, shower together, cuddle to sleep then next morning have another session...."

ooi2009 said...

fuck everyone , i like sex

thompsonboy said...

I just stopped having sex after while. Dont know why. Like you said, got bored.

DinoRic said...

DoDo Boy: Yeap..thanks! I may sounds old fashioned but i think sex with love is the most genuine feeling in a relationship..

Paul: Totally agree..i could see you're enjoying your sex too? though it ain't love? hmm..

Savoir: Thanks..You'll find yours soon enough..=)

Falcon: Yup! I'm happy myself! =D

Sevante: Agree provided you're doing it right..SAFE SEX!

Atienza: HAHAHA!!! It's never one way..always both ways..heeheeeee..

Ooi2009: I bet you like STD too..*thumbs up*

thompsonboy: HAHA! Had too much perhaps? Sex with random strangers is exciting yet empty at the same time..good to know that you have stopped..=)