Saturday, January 8, 2011

Likable

*Burp*

Ughh..

Just had steamboat buffet with the other half for dinner. I'm still feeling so stuffed after hours.

I've been blogging about other half for the the past weeks. 

No, I'm not out of topic to blog about i'm just too occupied with the love i have now and you can't do anything about it(HAHAHAHA!! OMG! So bitchy!).

ANYWAY~

This is not another post about the other half.

Here goes..

Well, i guessed not everyone is likable is this society. I mean there are some random strangers that you're just dying to meet and be close with that person and some poor souls you die die also don't wanna meet. I have this friend, i'll name him Garreth(Not his real name, just in case he reads this.) here. 

When i first told Garreth that i'm in a relationship the first thing he said was "ehh..you have to bring him to meet me!" then i was like "hmm..okaayyy..". It was never in my thought that i want Garreth to meet my other half. Not because i secretly detest Garreth but i just never thought of it. But the strange thing was when the other half saw Garreth's picture immediately he reject the idea of meeting him. No. Garreth is not ugly. 



Maybe he does look like a bitch. 

Hmmm..

The way you bring yourself does shows in pictures no matter how you try to hide it. It's like when you're a out from the closet gay, it's hard for people not to notice that you are not so straight. One of the reason the other half don't like Garreth is that he thinks Garreth is a wannabe as though he doesn't have a true self which i have to agree as i know Garreth too well. 

I don't consider myself as generally likable but at least i try not to be someone that i'm not. It's not the first day we know that being in this circle is hard. Majority of us are pretty superficial. We only want to be with the people that we think it's cool or even decent to our eyes. We're being picky to the person we love and that includes friends as well. If we can get the body or the face then we only start looking for personality. Don't you think we should read the content instead of looking by it's cover? 

It's not the first time i received comments about Garreth. Whenever i brought Garreth to meet my other friends i'll ended up being questioned why is Garreth this and that. It seems that Garreth never fail to give a bad impression.

O_O!

We're growing each day and living each day. And we shall never stop learning about ourselves and we have to constantly evaluate on things that we do. We are not perfect but at least try to learn to be better.

What doesn't kill you will only make you stronger. 

It's good to have bad comments once in a while at least we know that we are still human and we still make mistakes. But try to correct the mistakes into something positive is the way to go. Never stop learning till the day you step into your grave.

Disclaimer!

Once again, i blog about this not because i'm 100% likable. I'm still human sadly i still make mistakes! 

Cheffy Ric

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